Coincidentally
with something I recently wrote, I clicked on the trailer of another
romantic movie I will not watch.
The 1st
thing I felt it was disgusting. I´m used that “Bella” was
made for Edward Cullen and I surely thought that that unending love
story would never be different... I´m talking
about twilight. (Yes!
I´m somewhat romantic).
How
come I came to post this? I´ve seen some men apparently need to be
detached (and I think I´m used too).
If
you are like me, just watch part of the trailer. What do you feel?
The
1st thing I felt
it was disgusting. I said, to myself: “How come? Wasn´t it thought
to be forever?”
Yes!
I´m used to think it that way (and I´m not the only one who sees it
so).
Part
of me felt insulted. I could admit I liked “Bella”. I admit she
needs someone better than me, so I gave Edward “my approval”
though I would fight to get her (if I had the chance) and well aware
of that I´m handicapped by a dozen of reasons. Ha! Ha! Ha! (I´m not
too fictional! I have liked “Bella”,
but I don´t like her anymore).
How
does your mind works?
Don´t
you feel an emotional rejections to things like that?
If
you have wanted to be the new BF “Bella” has in that movie, I
will not say what´s wrong.
If
you have been “Edward Cullen”, I will not give my inputs.
My
concern, in here, is helping you to see things detached: Have you
loved “Bella” watching or reading that novel?
I
liked her! But I didn´t love her when I saw she liked another.
After
the 1st movie /
novel I was “OK” she loved another rather than me. Do you
understand what I´m saying?
But,
after watching that trailer of a SECULAR
SAGA I don´t think fits my
beliefs, something went wrong when I “saw” Edward Cullen somewhat
leaving her and -as a real life experience- I saw something weird in
“Bella´s” personal life.
I
know you don´t like reading, so I will leave another link to ease
that trip. Double
click, please!
The
1st
time I knew I “loved” someone in a movie I think it was Brooke
Shields. When I saw she over-kissed Richard Atkins (or whomever he
was) and did several things I thought I deserved, she broke my heart
(that´s
why I don´t girls/women above 5´5”)
Ha! Ha! Ha!
All
of them deserve the same!
Ha! Ha!
I´m
serious about brokenhearted people.
I feel sad when they are sad and -now- I´m lightly sad for me, I´m
missing those texts messages I was getting used to receive, her phone
calls and visits, her hugs and all those things I started to receive
and get when I cared for someone who went her way, who chases her
dreams, and she is is complete FREE to do what she does.
Will
you think the same about “Bella” and Edward Cullen´s?
The
“true” story behind a
movie like that: If
They were
married,
they
could end up
divorced.
Here´s
the tip for someone who needs to overcome his (her) love grievance:
If
you want to be detached, know the background from
those you need to be uprooted.
I
never planned to read that novel. I watched one movie to know why so
many people were
reading that bulky book and, of course, I read about Meyer´s
background and, knowing she was married, I had my ideas... Not to be
shared!
When
I saw Bella´s 2nd
boyfriend, I knew she was working semi-automatically under a BBD
appeal.
Let´s
agreed on:
Jacob seems to be handsome, stronger, Etc.,
but what about you? You felt left, despised, hurt, just for another
she / he picked and chose.... Didn´t you?
That´s
a BBD and they are free (you
too!).
It
isn´t a matter of what you marveled with dear thoughts, not what
you´ve planned or dreamed about that person you
loved, you cared
or wanted to be married: She
(he) left!
And
that´s ALL what counts to be detached.
Live
one day after another.
Forgive
them, forgive YOURSELF! And be thankful you
were loved.
Aren´t
you thankful enough
that you were loved, even for few minutes, days or a month? I´m
thankful, though. I recently loved and was loved: No regrets on it!
If
you want to be healed know you would have loved her (him) more than
you love YOU or GOD. Will you mind checking that spiritual realm?
If
you´ve loved a person more
than GOD you
were screwed up from the beginning. Didn´t you know that?
If
GOD was out of that love relationship, be sure that her/his
leaving you behind
was just a simple consequence of more people being hurt and left: If
you don´t love GOD, you don´t love well.
If
you don´t know the
way out, some
doors could be slammed -just at your faces- to show you what was
wrong in a relationship that have
ended up. Pray,
forgive (forgive
yourself
privately and publicly) and renounce those feeling to get
the needed healing
to keep your life going on.
Simple
as that!
In my
mind, I still being young, and here are some words I wrote for a dear
friend I wish the best:
“I
wish I dare to fly
I
wish I were your wings
I
wish I crossed that mark
where
lines with you begins.
No
time to say goodbyes
no
space to let them in
those
thorns you felt that bad
will
make you fly with winds.”
A.T.
June 13, 2014
P.S.
Here are
both links for you to use to compare and think, just to be
detached from a broken love bond:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=nx2KQUUBjx8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=4XRzdlDBkcg
P.S. 2
Here are
some reasons I might have liked someone like “Bella”.
Personal
life: Stewart lives in Los Angeles. She is interested in attending
college in the near future, saying, "I want to go to college for
literature. I want to be a writer. I mean, I love what I do, but it's
not all I want to do – be a professional liar for the rest of my
life."[65]
Althoughs:
However,
Stewart officially acknowledged her relationship with (Robert)
Pattinson for the first time in July 2012, when Us Weekly published
photos of Stewart showing affection with her Snow White and the
Huntsman director, Rupert Sanders.[69] The day the photos were
released, Stewart issued a public apology to Pattinson at People
Magazine, saying, "I'm
deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I've caused to those
close to me and everyone this has affected. This
momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my
life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love
him, I'm so sorry.[70]"
Suddenly Single (May 2013)
“Seven
months after winning back Pattinson, Stewart and her Twilight
costar
split
once more,
with the actor failing to show up at a birthday celebration she hosts
for him. "Kristen
has been in a terrible mood, and it was obvious that things were not
great with Rob,"
a source tells
PEOPLE,
adding that it wouldn't come as a surprise if the pair were to get
back together. “
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