Allow me to tell, according to my experience: I never like older women. Today youngs, both men or women, try to learn from the older ones and, in the case of women, some may call her cougars (I don´t know why) except that having younger people by sides makes you to feel younger.
Tina Turner may call that "successful", like many others who has got what they like and, ALL are free to get the partner any could be given (GOD-GIVEN) but I can assure what I have heard from the people I have met is sordid. Old women still having fantacies like teenagers (I knew one who wanted 2 men in bed and this also fell in love with a man of 25) She is 43 yearsd old!
What do I have in common with a teen? What do I have in common with a foreigner in a remote country I cannot walk in her culture or economy?
LOVE seems to be a need EVERYWHERE, but the commonwealth of ideas, likes, and a bunch of things do matter to make it successfully; because beauty and health may fade away.
Older people can be ill-biased. Teens are those who risk themselves to start a new relationship at ease, and I had a forty-niner friend who married 5 times (From USA, by the way).
Marriage has to be given by God. It´s not based on beauty, a nice roof richly kept or sex. It´s a miracle to find one and a miracle to be found.
So I remember those words Jesus said about "the eunuch"...
